Your body is the house you grew up in, how dare you try to burn it to the ground.
Young lesbians do not experience sexism and homophobia as separate events; instead, the two forms of harassment are mutually reinforcing. It is simply impermissible, according to rigid rules of social behavior, for girls to reject boys. It is an unforgivable transgression for girls to “compete” with boys for the attention of other girls. Thus lesbians, and particularly lesbians who identify as or are perceived to be “butch,” are punished for violating gender norms and because of their sexual orientation.
Please don’t let you bully into submission.
You are not a bigot or a hater for not wanting to have sex with certain people.
Only you decide who can touch you. It’s not your responsibility to have sex with others just because people think you need to be more “inclusive”.
If you don’t want it - don’t do it. No means no. There is no need to feel guilty.